Showing posts with label blogging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blogging. Show all posts

October 27, 2017

How I Grew My Blog, and How I Shrank It (Oops!)



In the many years I have been blogging here on The Closet Historian, I have not done many blog posts specifically about blogging, so we could say it is high time I addressed the subject no?

I feel like talking about blogging is somehow either taboo or has to be the main subject of a blog itself. There are so many blogs about blogging out there! Why? Because many many people are searching for articles about how to blog, and so a blog about blogging is bound to do quite well! It gets old though, reading about how much x blogger grew her blog, because of course blogging advice based sites have an easier time with clicks and views (and ecourses, why does everyone need to have an ecourse?) and are easier to grow, because people are always searching for more blogging advice! Do you know what people are searching for a lot less on Google? 1940's fashion advice.

Still, unless you have a blog about blogging, it can still seem a bit taboo to write about the subject. Of course everyone wants to believe we are all here solely for the pure fun and passion of it all. Many people start blogs with a lot more in mind than a passionate hobby however, including myself. I had just graduated university when I started this blog, I thought I could be one of the few who use magic and fairy dust to turn blogging into a career. Well, we know how that's worked out for me don't we! You know how I know it is indeed the passion and the fun of it that keeps me blogging? Because I reached my ultimate dream goal numbers last year, and then I lost them, and....well, I am still here arn't I? Because luckily I discovered along the way that blogging helps keep me sane and is the exact sort of structure and rhythm I need in life!

So anyways, today I wish to be crass and talk to you all about blogging, what worked for me when I hit the high numbers last year (that I had spent years trying and dreaming about achieving), and then how exactly I lost those numbers just as fast. These tips are mostly intended for other bloggers or people who want to start a blog, and are definitely more geared towards people who wish to make their blog into more than just a hobby.



How I grew my blog views to 50,000 views a month; What worked for me was:

-Posting Helpful Reviews of Brands/Films/Books People are Searching for...

No surprise here really. If a new book comes out, and people are searching for reviews, and you have posted a review...your blog will come up on those search results and people will visit! Same goes for films, brands, particular sewing patterns etc. Technically planning your content around knowing this fact is just good SEO, search engines will recommend your blog more if it includes search terms people are googling. I really don't think this tip is very insidious, sure you may review or mention something knowing it may lead to more blog traffic, but as long as you are reviewing or mentioning things pertinent to your niche and readership it is a win win. People visit blogs and websites that they like, and they like them for different reasons of course, but people are seeking good or interesting information, posts that are helpful to them in some way, either directly via DIY's and tips, or indirectly via good old fashioned inspiration. If like me for example you post about vintage fashion, reviewing a new style of dress from a particular repro brand, or reviewing a new period film may help bring in a few new readers, and it is the other content that you create that will keep them coming back. Hopefully...

-Getting Involved in the Community

This one was hard for me, I am a total introvert and am quite afraid to say something wrong and come off as weird. For a long time I was a total lurker, only viewing other blogs and social media accounts but never commenting. Sometimes I would (and still am guilty of this one...) type out comments and erase them several times trying to make sure I had the wording just right as to not embarrass myself. I get it!! But guess what, no one thinks you are awkward for pointing out how nice their hair looked that day, or complimenting how they paired that tan handbag with their cranberry colored dress. People love getting comments! (ahem...I love getting comments <3 ) Even if it is only one word comments, like "Nice!" or "Pretty!" it is still great to hear from people who are viewing/reading your work.

I am still not the best at engaging with my fellow vintage bloggers, but reaching out and beginning to participate in the community is the single biggest catalyst in going from zero views to some views. Of course be genuine, odds are you have an opinion about someone else's outfit, or review, or photos and you should let them know what they reminded you of, or inspired you to see, or had never thought about. Most vintage lovers are isolated from one another unless they live in big cities (and even then really), so connecting with people who have similar interests is going to be super rewarding! Eventually people will click back to your blog curious about the person who keeps commenting. People won't want to get to know you if you are merely a number in their daily view count, but if you are a name they will want to know more.

-Posting Consistently and as Often as I Could Manage

When this blog here of mine was getting 50,000 views a month, I was posting 4-6 posts a week, averaging around 5 a week pretty consistently. People will come back day after day if you have something new to show them and they know they can count on your blog to be good. These posts can't be just filler, links to other sites (you want them to stay on your blog remember, not click away), they have to provide a service or inspiration to the visitor. The hardest part here is generating great content consistently. Publishing great posts 5 times a week is awesome, posting great posts just once a week is also great- because consistency is good- but it is not going to generate as many views as 5 post a week. That's just easy maths unfortunately, and it is indeed very time consuming to keep that pace. That's why when people blog as their job, it is in fact a job and takes as many hours as a "real job".

-Createing Original DIYs/ or Other Deeply Helpful/Instructional Posts

Like I said already above, people will visit if your blog is helping them, inspiring them, or just downright a great resource. Not everyone is good at writing tutorials or explaining DIYs, and I myself have written tutorials that proved helpful and tutorials that have obviously proved confusing and near useless. The traffic stats will tell you which you have achieved, and this is a muscle you will have to train and keep in use to perfect. Not every super-content post has to be a tutorial or DIY, but those styles of posts when good are endlessly pinable, good for SEO, and turn you and your blog into a go-to expert. These posts (lets keep calling them super-content, like a comic book hero) are also evergreen, meaning that they will get views today when they go up, next week when someone shares them on facebook, and 2 years from now when yet another person searches for a DIY 1940s hat or in my case, the 1920s one hour dress. My posts about how to make a 1 hour 20's dress remain the most popular ever posted on this blog, even though I published them all over a year ago. Making a concerted effort to blog about the 1 hour dress more often helped me reach the 50,000 numbers last summer, and I haven't talked about that style dress since, but people still come here for those posts.

If DIYs and the like are beyond your oeuvre, instead of teaching someone how to make/do something, you can also teach them about something. Teach them the history of wool production in New Zealand, how to style/wear this particular item or that one, how to thrift shop like a pro, all about Lilli Ann or Lanvin, the 5 best resource books for knitting fair isle, the best sewing shears and why you are convinced. These are still how-tos, still helpful engaging super-content posts, but also are within range when crafting or making aren't always a part of what you do.

-Not Trying to Make Money Blogging

Hey, just so you know, I have never made any money from blogging, and I have been doing it for over 4 years now. You could put some google ads on your page, or accept every sponsored post about office furniture that random PR people who haven't looked at your site fling into your email inbox, but neither of those things are going to be super great for you in the long run. Why? It's easy money to have lots of ads on your blog right? No, because if your blog starts looking like news websites do these days (more ads than articles), no one is going to visit it. And also it just looks grubby and kinda tacky when the ads have no relation to what you blog about. Its 2017, fewer and fewer people are making money blogging, and if they are, it's likely they have other social media platforms that are really helping drive their traffic. Who is making money online these days? You know the answer, Instagram influencers and YouTubers. YouTube has a better system for giving cuts to the content creator from both paid YouTube Red subscriptions and more traditional advertising. I think people are more willing to see ads on YouTube videos than they are to see them on static blogs, probably because many people were raised on TV where ads one ignores to see content are the mainstay.

Once upon a 2008, many people could make a living blogging, but that just not really the case anymore. Perhaps this Instagram/YouTube bubble will eventually burst too, so why jump on that bandwaggon? Firstly, because that bubble may not burst, who knows, and second, because you aren't sharing your content online to make money, you are sharing your content online to build a brand. Everybody is building a personal brand these days, and it's the goal because you can take your brand to Instagram, to a blog, onto YouTube, and into bookstores or onto Etsy. Better that people know you, like you, and when you come out with a book, product, ecourse (I still don't get these but hey) they will want to support you because you are their friend. Look at the blog A Beautiful Mess, who are a huge blog btw, but they have been able to launch all kinds of ventures because their readers are behind them and want to see them succeed. They didn't do it ad-on-blog free of course, but if your goal is to turn blogging into a career, you have to be conscious of how that idea and career description changes moment by moment.

It's not like you are using your blog visitors to get quick google ad-sense cash (which is more like coins these days anyways I imagine), it's more like building a community of people who like the same stuff you do, then when you perhaps find the means to make something you would all enjoy, people are happy to engage with it. More likely than not, when bloggers or influencers I love come out with a book/product/etc I am excited to get my hands on it. I like the person, I want to support them. If you see people as dollar signs, either at the beginning or when you hit it big, people are gonna notice you are sleazy and leave.

All that being said, this is just my opinion. I'm no expert on making money blogging, or how to do it well and with genuine care for your readers, because I have never done it. Anyone wanna buy some office furniture?

So, where did it all fall apart? Why did my blog stop growing and actively start shrinking?



How I shrank my blog:

Well I basically stopped doing any of the above recommendations of course! Remember I said consistency was key? This is the internet! People can click away at any time, and only your diligence, hard work, and charisma as a blogger/content creator is going keep them coming back.

-I Went from Consistently Posting 5 Posts a Week to Only Posting 2-3

As my "day job" (it has been different day jobs along the way, but you get the idea) ramped up, aka I started working full time and crazy hours last year, my blogging and sewing fell by the wayside. I was exhausted weeknights, and could barely catch up on the weekends. Blogging well is a lot of work. Sometimes you only have enough hours in each day to complete one full time job. If you are a super planner you can schedule and organize your blogging around a full time job, I have been able to do it at times, but this year has not been those times, this year has been a bit crazy. I want more than anything to devote myself solely to my "side projects", blogging, vintage fashion research, YouTube, writing fiction novels, and sewing reproduction clothing. Unfortunately, I can't ignore the world and have to adult at least a little bit, and I lost my ability to balance it all once time became scarcer and scarcer. If anyone sees my balance laying about, please do return it. My email can be found on the contact page of this blog if you would like to report a sighting of my missing balance.

-I Started Writing Less of Those SEO Friendly Posts Like Reviews and DIYS

Balance out the window, who had time to create researched and well written posts anymore! It was all I could do to document my outfits to share, the idea of creating original DIYs or well researched articles went flying off and away with all of my energy. So again I guess this tip is the same, consistency is key! If people are coming to your blog for that sweet super-content, and you haven't been able to post any for weeks, they will lose faith in you and stop coming by.

-I Didn't Prioritize Well and Also Let Myself Get BURNT OUT

Burning out is easy. You start feeling a bit warm when you are scrambling to keep up the balance, keep up the posts, keep up the consistency, and before you know it you aren't scrambling to keep it all up, your scrambling in order to not fail completely. Then somehow you've been in the oven far to long, and like this metaphor- you're well overcooked.

Have you ever heard of the triangle dating joke/meme where there is a triangle with emotional stability on one point, intelligent on another, and physical attractiveness on the last point but in any partner you must pick only two? Well it's a bad dating joke, but I feel like in my life the triangle is "work full time", "work on side projects", and "sleep enough not to completely burn out" and I lost all balance between the three. You can work on your side projects and sleep enough to human properly, but not if you are working full time. Or you can work full time and sleep enough to human properly but loose your blogging mojo (hello, it's me, I've been wondering if aft....), but you rarely, very very rarely, get to have all three of these things at once. Spinning too many plates leads to broken porcelain, and then when you stumble and step on the shards it hurts. For me the shards were watching my numbers and traffic die away after years of trying to reach 50,000, that hurt, it still hurts.

-Like and Idiot, I let the Numbers Get to Me

Oops. Like I said in the opening of this missive, I started this blog because I needed a creative outlet, and also because I wanted to be a professional blogger. (I kept blogging because it turned out I loved it, who knew). Of course on the daily you can't over fuss and focus on the numbers, but if you want to grow anything, you have to measure that growth eventually. So when I finally started hitting my dream numbers of around 50,000 views a month I was over the moon and thought "this is it, finally I'm a real blog!" like Pinocchio wanting to be a real boy, I thought I had finally made progress in my goal to be a real blogger/influencer. Well sure, I was on my way, TCH was growing, and then it all fell apart due to boring real life/day job timesuck issues and eventually, lost hope. Because it is much harder to work tirelessly on something when the numbers are going down. It's just hard to keep up the motivation when less people are coming by than ever before and you feel like sand is slipping through your fingers but you cant seem to tighten your hands.

You start having treacherous and seductive thoughts like "Why spend all day on this post know one will read?" "Why make something when no one comes by to see your work anymore anyway?". These mean grey thoughts are seeping out from the numbers, the shrinking numbers creating a miasma that will threaten to choke out your creativity and drain the passion from everything you had built and loved. Numbers are fickle, and they make you ignore the actual people, the wonderful friends you have made who are still there, who do want to see your new skirt you made because they like you, not just your blog. If you forget about the people the numbers win, you can't let the numbers win. Numbers take down hundreds of creatives every year, your job is to persist, your job is to tell the numbers to feck off.

I'm still killing off the fog from my stupid numbers, I listened to them whisper and have paid the price for it. I'm building my gasmask so I can keep going, because I love what I do, I love what we share, I love making and learning and writing (and luckily, video editing oddly enough), so I'm gonna stop breathing in the lie that my worth lies in numbers (my blog traffic, the word count of the novel I can't seem to finish, my bank account balance, my student loan debt, how many years I have been out of college and am still not a fully functioning adult...). Numbers and I are on a break, I've gotta build up my reserves of numbers anti-venom. I am not numbers, I am a person. I mean ahem, this is an advice post for you, dear reader, not therapy for me...so, u...numbers don't define you. Yeah you, we were definitely still talking about you...and speaking of you;

Why do people come to your blog? They come for you probably, something about you is a little different and it is a perspective people want to hear from, eyes someone wants to see through even if only for a few minutes though a single post. So your most valuable asset as a blogger, or content creator of any kind (filmmaker, author, painter, musician...) is your unique point of view. Narrow down on what you can provide that no one else can, those posts are going to set your blog apart from the sea of the internet.

Hopefully, this has been helpful for anyone out there who has also lost their blogging fairy dust, or is just starting out blogging and wants to know what to focus on and what to avoid! Thank you all so much for reading this, and for visiting this blog, and for coming back year after year. You can probably tell that I tie up perhaps too much of my identity in this blog, so the fact that you are here means more to me than I can really communicate. Thank you!!!



P.S.: Were gonna talk a little bit more about blogging soon, I'm on my metaphorical 12 step in getting over my evil-numbers outbreak and am not done talking about it just yet. Stay tuned, or don't, I'm trying to figure out how not to care what you decide...

May 26, 2017

Creating Your Dream Vintage Inspired Wardrobe : An Introduction


For those of us without an infinite budget, or for those who have more modern leaning measurements (Super cute 1930's dress for sale now!!! Great cotton print, waist size 24....oh wait, umm,yeah that's not gonna work) , or if you are like me-- both, the best way to build the vintage style wardrobe of your dreams is to learn to sew.

Now, I'm sure that's not what many of you want to hear. Sewing apparel is a rarer and rarer skill t pick up these days, but with practice, sewing gives you the power to create the wardrobe of your dreams. As if learning to sew wasn't task enough, I'm going to be even bolder and recommend you learn to make your own patterns too. WHAT! I know what you're thinking "well, I'm gonna close this tab now because this girl is crazy". Hear me out! We all start somewhere, and once upon a time I was just learning to sew, stuck in a pile of ripped tissue paper wondering why nothing I made from commercial patterns ever seemed to fit right. Not to mention my self esteem was so in the toilet I wouldn't even let myself wear vintage style to begin with, thinking I somehow didn't deserve it. I've come a long way in the last five years, and maybe perhaps some of you want to make a journey too...

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Which is why I want to renew my focus on sharing how I achieved my goal of not only being able to have a closet full of vintage style clothing, but also how you can have one too. Maybe you have done some sewing before but the idea of making patterns yourself sounds like way too much trouble, perhaps the idea of learning to sew at all is just too daunting, or maybe you enjoy spending quite a lot of moola on a basic repro pencil skirt when you could have made one yourself for half the price, I don't know where you're at, but I figure I ought to start sharing how I have come this far.

Of course this is not to say you can't have the wardrobe of your dreams without learning to sew, of course you can! Vintage is often expensive, but you can save up for each piece. Vintage in larger sizes is even rarer, but maybe you are ready to wait for the right pieces to come along. Perhaps repro brands are your purveyors of choice, and there are some amazing repro companies out there making some great stuff, but being small scale retailers in the scheme of things, their ranges are only so big each season, and finding items more vintage leaning than pin-up can be a challenge. Not to mention a lot of repro dresses cost as much as a vintage piece... but I can't say it isn't doable, of course it is! Even those on a budget can find vintage appropriate pieces thrifting and build a wardrobe that way.

All ways of dressing vintage are good ways if you enjoy them and are having fun and feeling beautiful! As I mentioned recently, nothing makes me more peeved than people who think their way of wearing vintage is somehow better than others. In my opinion, (and hey, you're on my blog so you are gonna get my opinion) repro, whether bought or home sewn, thrifted or modern items that fit the bill, and authentic vintage items are all equal in the goal of vintage style. Some gals have a mix going, some have closets of only authentic vintage pieces, some girls wear mostly repro brands, and none of them are more "right" than the others.

Still, there really is nothing like seeing a vintage image of your favorite old Hollywood starlet in a great dress and thinking to yourself, "ooo I can make that!" and then a few weeks later to have a replica of the exact ensemble hanging in your closet. I don't want to say sewing your own repro is better, I just want to share about how it has been the easiest and best way for me personally to achieve a vintage style wardrobe while on a budget and being an impatient person! Unless you have got a personal dressmaker (and if you do, I'm rather jealous) it falls to you to become your own personal dressmaker.

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As your sewing skills improve, and you spend more time studying vintage clothing and styling, your style is bound to evolve. I started my journey to creating a vintage inspired wardrobe with just two simple pencil skirts in cotton twill from Joanns. The navy skirt in the first outfit above (from my first ever, and now cringy to me, outfit post!) was one of those two skirts, the other is black. From just these two items I build up an entire closet full of reproduction vintage clothing sewn to my own size and specifications!

I have so often had people ask me what pattern I used to make a dress or blouse, and I always feel bad saying that I didn't use one I can recommend because I made the pattern myself! I dream of launching my own pattern line someday, but until then I figured I'd try my best to do one better and try and teach anyone who's curious about my patterns and sewing how to do it themselves. I think every vintage loving gal (or guy, or person) deserves to have the wardrobe of their dreams, and if I can help at all in that endeavor, I'd like to do so!

I have long hesitated to teach pattern drafting and sewing because I figure there are already so many blogs and resources available out there on the subject. I realize now though that while much of what I want o talk about can be found out there somewhere, I have my own way of doing things that may work better for other people too.

So today I wanted to announce a new series here on the blog (and most likely in video format over on YouTube too) dedicated to the basics of pattern drafting and sewing with a vintage wardrobe in mind. We'll dive into the more psychological topics too, like wearing vintage as a feminist, dealing with the general public's weird comments, and knocking down the mental walls telling you you can't be a glamorous bombshell. Finally we'll be taking a look into how ladies of the past styled their fabulous vintage clothes in each era and for different occasions!  First things first, as all things start somewhere, we're going to need to draft a basic sloper (which means some math will be involved, unfortunately). So that post will be coming soon, and in the meantime I'd love to know; what would you like to know about creating a vintage wardrobe? Pattern drafting questions? Sewing inquiries? Let me know what you would like to know more about and I'll add it to my little table of contents in a jiffy!

I'm excited to start this series, and I really hope I can articulate my process and hopefully inspire some of you to give creating your vintage inspired wardrobe from scratch a go too :)


(header image of Diana Doors from here)

December 19, 2016

Favorite Outfits of 2016 Part 1


Another year of outfits--well everyone has a year full of outfits, unless they live in a nudist colony I suppose, but I document my outfits, which means I can look back on them here at the end of the year. I really think my style has evolved over the past year, and my wardrobe has certainly grown since I never stop sewing (or shopping eek!). Today I thought instead of a new outfit (it was -2 degrees this weekend, sorry!), I would pick my favorite outfit posts from each of the first six months of the year to share with you all! Most of you will have already seen these ensembles, but it was fun for me to go back through my own archives from the past year and look at how my style has evolved (and my hair length has changed!).














July 29, 2016

6 Fashion Blogs Every Vintage Gal Should Follow


I know we all prefer vintage fashion, but that doesn't mean we should leave modern fashion bloggers off of our radar! Especially since so many gals mix vintage pieces with modern fashion in such unique and interesting ways. When I first started following fashion blogs back in 2006 or so, there weren't many vintage focused blogs anyways, not like there are now! Us vintage loving gals can still look to our more modern dressing contemporaries for inspiration, even if it is only in colors paired or moods achieved.

Who doesn't love some deliciously styled photography after all? I thought today I'd share 6 of my most favorite fashion blogs of the more modern persuasion, and ask you to leave me your own favorites in the comments as I always love adding new blogs to the list of those I follow!

1) The Cherry Blossom Girl

Not a new or unknown blogger by any means, Alix has been around for ages sharing her beautiful and girly style snaps! Her style definitely borrows a lot from mid-century inspirations, though the clothes she wears are most often modern designer duds. Though I can't afford to wear Chloe or Marc Jacobs myself, her images are always pretty and inspiring none the less!

2) Pandora

Another blog you may already have on your radar, Louise has been sharing her unique blend of modern and vintage/antique fashion for a while now. Her style often leans towards the 60s or 70s in inspiration, but sometimes she draws from Victorian or Edwardian styles too. She works with designers and professional photographers certainly, but the images are still great inspiration for mixing and matching your own wardrobe with gusto.

3) Bittersweet Colors

There are probably more than a few bloggers who don't have "vintage fashion" blogs but basically have very vintage style, and Veronica of Bittersweet Colors is one of them. With a wardrobe of full 50s styled skirts, Grace Kelly esk collared shirts, and an enviable collection of heels, this woman has an impeccable sense of style! The name of her blog is well chosen as her color mixing skills are the stuff of legend.

4) Keiko Lynn

This sweetly stylish Brooklyn babe does not confine herself to style alone, lifestyle posts mingle with lots of quality make-up tutorials and more on her wonderful blog! I would describe her style as Modcloth personified. (I mean that in the nicest way btw, I'm sure there are people who are anti-Modcloth out there!)

5) Sea of Shoes

It can sometimes be hard to relate to Jane Aldridge, she took part in a coming out at the Hôtel de Crillon for famous/important young ladies, she seems to easily afford Chanel and Prada pumps at the drop of a mouse click, and it seems her style doesn't exactly have a budget behind it. These are all qualities it would be easy to envy, or deride, but not every rich girl can style an outfit the way Jane can. She has the talent for styling, and that's why on an internet full of girls with endless credit and only questionable style, Sea of Shoes stands apart and above the-- well sea of competition.

6) Faiiint

Finishing with something a bit different, Stephanie of the blog Faiiint has the same style as my alter ego. While I love my vintage dresses and Bakelite dress clips beyond measure, if I were banned from wearing vintage style, I would swing over to the all black, modern goth (neo-goth?) styling perfected by Stephanie! Different textures of black clothing, languid draped black jersey and varying weights of leather, add in a little lace and I am sold.



July 22, 2016

#Girlboss Book Review


I honestly can't remember a time when I didn't want to be a girlboss. Who doesn't want to be a badass bitch, kicking ass and taking names while wearing high heels and a swipe of red lipstick? I do want to helm a successful company (just not as large as Nasty Gal), and I certainly want to be my own boss someday, so I felt I had to read this (rather #hyped) book to see if there were any magical insights or shortcuts Amoruso had to share.

The biggest point she tries to get across? That there were no shortcuts, you really do have to stay up to 3am writing product descriptions, printing shipping labels, and answering customer service emails. Part memoir and part business advice book, this quick read can't exactly seem to decide what it wants to be. Also the narrative of Sophia Amoruso's life seems to be that she couldn't decide what she wanted to be herself for a long time, and after dozens of incarnations she seems to have accidentally discovered her calling. She was a rebellious teenager who finished high school at home because she hated school (when will hating school stop being "cool" btw?) and jumped from job to job with no passion and seemingly no drive other than a wish to avoid "the man". What does this tell us? That it is perfectly possible to flail about indistinctly for a long while and yet still turn it around on a dime and become a #girlboss. Any day is a good day to change your habits, change your thinking, and by extension change your life completely.

The book is an easy conversational read, and sure Amoruso does come off as a bit, well, bossy (like she is talking down to the reader) but I took it as she was meaning to be a kick in the pants to those reading rather than a voice from on high. That she has done something rather remarkable is undeniable, but unfortunately there isn't much concrete advice to pass onto the reader. Nasty Gal's success is partially due to pure fortunate timing, girls started shopping online and the stroke of genius to style vintage clothes in an editorial way on ebay was revolutionary at the time. The unique factor of adding a heavy does of "cool" to the run of the mill ebay shop set Nasty Gal apart and ahead of Amoruso's competitors, and combined with the rise of social media, fashion bloggers, and the popularity of street style, allowed Nasty Gal to quickly grow into a hugely successful business.

I don't think she ever says it plainly but the reason Nasty Gal worked is because Amrouso knew her customer, and she knew her really really well. She knew the kind of cool girls wanted to buy into way before anyone else, and did it better than anyone else too for rather a long time. I have very little in common with the Nasty Gal customer myself, but the idea that you need to know how to get people genuinely excited about your products and your brand is a sound one.

I have read reviews of this book that were disappointed it wasn't a "real" business book, I've read reviews disappointed it wasn't a real memoir, and then there were the meanies who even scoffed at the term girlboss itself, but you know what, I liked it. I think it would be best for a gal a younger than myself, I sorta wish I had read it before I went to college, at around 17 when some of the advice would have meant more to me (like the parts on writing a cover letter, or the vague/confused introduction to magical thinking). Not that I didn't get anything out of reading this book, because I still did...



Well what did I get from this book? That each of us has a unique point of view, and with hard work and passion one might just be able to build that alone into a huge multi million dollar success story. It doesn't work for everyone, and Sophia doesn't seem to have nailed down exactly why it worked for her, but reading this book did make me feel like I should at least be trying harder to make it work for for me. There are a gazillion ebay stores and etsy shops, there are thousands and thousands of blogs. Being unique, working harder than the rest, and having something real to offer people is the only way to stand out and have any chance of getting ahead.

So I guess I better get my nose a bit closer to the proverbial grindstone eh? It's something that has been on my mind a lot lately, hence buying this book. I can't keep waiting for my life to sort itself out into the dream version of my future, I have to sculpt it myself, create the life I dream about with my own two hands. Anything, be it a book, a podcast, or a wake up call (hello there 25th birthday...) that gets me excited to work harder and get shit done is valuable in this strange in-between feeling time I find myself floating in.

As for this book's critics: I appreciated the updated introduction from 2016 Sophia Amoruso, who seems a bit more humble and grounded than 2014 Sophia Amoruso. As she says:

"As I wrote in this book the first time it was published: You shouldn't idolize anyone. And I am telling you again, don't idolize me. I don't know shit. And neither do your parents. But if I can pull any of this off, so can you. Take that and run with it."

And I think I will. Motivation can be such a fickle friend, any this book gave me some, so I'd call it a worthwhile read in the end. Time to cross #Girlboss off my to-read list, and get going on my to-do list!


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